Almost a year later and I still see my blog randomly appearing on social media, this blog has come a longgg way. To those who are wondering where I went… eh lets just say I’m back ;)
hurseyj3 said: Hi, I really like your Tumblr! I was wondering if you would be interested in posting a funny picture on your tumblr linking back to a website.I will pay you for each post via Paypal. Let me know if you are interested by replying to this message or emailing me at hurseyj@yahoo.
thanks but no thanks! not here to make a penny off my blog. I do it for fun and I have the most amazing fan base. That’s worth more than money to me :)
Anonymous said: Okay I'm 19 and a girl and still a virgin. I just have never felt comfortable with any guy I have been with (its hard for me to trust people) but when guys find out they just treat me like a baby or are totally turned off. I'm not waiting till marriage just till I can find someone I actually trust and feel comfortable with. Is that bad?
I don’t see an issue with that. If a girl I was talking to tells me she’s a virgin I would first feel special that she’s even willing to open up and tell me that. I would also make sure she knows I’m not here to pressure her into anything she doesn’t want to do. Good things like that are special and you don’t want to live with regret. It’s not a turnoff though, applaud you for standing up and not letting peer pressure get to you
Anonymous said: I'm the worst when it comes to flirting with guys. Usually, I come off too flirty and wicked desperate--my downfall. But, there's this guy who I'm 98% sure likes me (and I REALLY like him) but I can't seem to make a textual conversation interesting! I'm afraid he's going to think I'm super boring. How do I flirt with him without being clingy but make it obvious that I want to hang out?
the one thing that hooks me as a guy is when a girl shows so much interest and then suddenly stops… I freak out and it bothers me lol try that out, but other than that? try using open end questions and let him do the work, at the end of the day he IS the guy. He’s the one who needs to show he’s interested
Anonymous said: soooo.. are you ever going to post a picture of yourself?
SURE, I’ll post it right now :)
lol jk I don’t think people care anymore… or do they? ;)
Anonymous said: hey what is your feelings on waiting to have sex until your married? please answer :) I'm a girl and I would really like to wait until I'm married but every time I tell that to guys they just leave. I just don't get it. What is wrong with waiting?
nothing is wrong with that. if the right person cares for you then he will understand. you have morals and he needs to be mature enough to see it. don’t lower your standards for someone who wants to take away something that’s special to you.
Anonymous said: Do you tell girls (potential gfs) about your blog?? Or is it kind of a private thing for you?
depends… the last girl I was talking to didn’t know about the blog. I don’t try to hide it anymore, but it’s something I bring up later if anything. It used to be private when I first started it, but I don’t see it as a big deal anymore
Anonymous said: What's up I'm a 19 yr old guy and need advice on how to talk to girls(age from 19 & older) cuz i get shy any advice helps thanks!
here’s the best advice you will hear. Girls are not complicated! I mean.. yeah they can be confusing at times but as men we tend to over think things which makes us feel that they’re the ones who are the hardest creatures to talk to lol my best advice I can give you is just to be yourself… girls are talented at picking up small details, so please try avoiding the “smooth.. I have game” type of guy. Practice more on becoming a better YOU and be happy. When you’re happy it shows and it attracts more attention. If you can open and hold an interesting conversation this helps, being funny and humorous is a big plus but please.. don’t over do it. Like I said… be YOU.
mariacalaquita said: Hi there! I just wanted to say that I really enjoy your posts, and I hope you're doing very well! :D I actually wanted to ask, since you work in finance, about how to invest. I'm currently going to be getting a settlement from my car accident awhile back, and since I may be getting quite a bit of money, I wanted to ask how to invest it so that I don't lose it? Also, I was thinking of going to a credit union instead of a bank. What are the pros of credit unions? Thanks so much!
wow.. didn’t expect this type of question lol If I were you I would talk to a financial advisor about putting your money into stocks and bonds, the only downside to this is that you’re gambling your money and this isn’t FDIC insured. Don’t waste your time on CD’s, the interest rates lately are something laugh at. You can open up a Money Market account and have it sit there until you decide on what you want to do. Credit Unions are okay in my opinion.. I don’t personally like them. Try sticking to a financial institution like a bank, you have more opportunities there. but that’s my opinion :/ goodluck :)
minminminminminminmin said: Do you ever want to be a writer??
… havent really put thought into that :/