hurseyj3 asked: Hi, I really like your Tumblr! I was wondering if you would be interested in posting a funny picture on your tumblr linking back to a website.I will pay you for each post via Paypal. Let me know if you are interested by replying to this message or emailing me at hurseyj@yahoo.
thanks but no thanks! not here to make a penny off my blog. I do it for fun and I have the most amazing fan base. That’s worth more than money to me :)
Anonymous asked: Okay I'm 19 and a girl and still a virgin. I just have never felt comfortable with any guy I have been with (its hard for me to trust people) but when guys find out they just treat me like a baby or are totally turned off. I'm not waiting till marriage just till I can find someone I actually trust and feel comfortable with. Is that bad?
I don’t see an issue with that. If a girl I was talking to tells me she’s a virgin I would first feel special that she’s even willing to open up and tell me that. I would also make sure she knows I’m not here to pressure her into anything she doesn’t want to do. Good things like that are special and you don’t want to live with regret. It’s not a turnoff though, applaud you for standing up and not letting peer pressure get to you
Anonymous asked: I'm the worst when it comes to flirting with guys. Usually, I come off too flirty and wicked desperate--my downfall. But, there's this guy who I'm 98% sure likes me (and I REALLY like him) but I can't seem to make a textual conversation interesting! I'm afraid he's going to think I'm super boring. How do I flirt with him without being clingy but make it obvious that I want to hang out?
the one thing that hooks me as a guy is when a girl shows so much interest and then suddenly stops… I freak out and it bothers me lol try that out, but other than that? try using open end questions and let him do the work, at the end of the day he IS the guy. He’s the one who needs to show he’s interested
Anonymous asked: soooo.. are you ever going to post a picture of yourself?
SURE, I’ll post it right now :)
lol jk I don’t think people care anymore… or do they? ;)
Anonymous asked: hey what is your feelings on waiting to have sex until your married? please answer :) I'm a girl and I would really like to wait until I'm married but every time I tell that to guys they just leave. I just don't get it. What is wrong with waiting?
nothing is wrong with that. if the right person cares for you then he will understand. you have morals and he needs to be mature enough to see it. don’t lower your standards for someone who wants to take away something that’s special to you.
Anonymous asked: Do you tell girls (potential gfs) about your blog?? Or is it kind of a private thing for you?
depends… the last girl I was talking to didn’t know about the blog. I don’t try to hide it anymore, but it’s something I bring up later if anything. It used to be private when I first started it, but I don’t see it as a big deal anymore
Anonymous asked: What's up I'm a 19 yr old guy and need advice on how to talk to girls(age from 19 & older) cuz i get shy any advice helps thanks!
here’s the best advice you will hear. Girls are not complicated! I mean.. yeah they can be confusing at times but as men we tend to over think things which makes us feel that they’re the ones who are the hardest creatures to talk to lol my best advice I can give you is just to be yourself… girls are talented at picking up small details, so please try avoiding the “smooth.. I have game” type of guy. Practice more on becoming a better YOU and be happy. When you’re happy it shows and it attracts more attention. If you can open and hold an interesting conversation this helps, being funny and humorous is a big plus but please.. don’t over do it. Like I said… be YOU.
mariacalaquita asked: Hi there! I just wanted to say that I really enjoy your posts, and I hope you're doing very well! :D I actually wanted to ask, since you work in finance, about how to invest. I'm currently going to be getting a settlement from my car accident awhile back, and since I may be getting quite a bit of money, I wanted to ask how to invest it so that I don't lose it? Also, I was thinking of going to a credit union instead of a bank. What are the pros of credit unions? Thanks so much!
wow.. didn’t expect this type of question lol If I were you I would talk to a financial advisor about putting your money into stocks and bonds, the only downside to this is that you’re gambling your money and this isn’t FDIC insured. Don’t waste your time on CD’s, the interest rates lately are something laugh at. You can open up a Money Market account and have it sit there until you decide on what you want to do. Credit Unions are okay in my opinion.. I don’t personally like them. Try sticking to a financial institution like a bank, you have more opportunities there. but that’s my opinion :/ goodluck :)
min0380 asked: Do you ever want to be a writer??
… havent really put thought into that :/
knotalways-deactivated20131114 asked: Don't you find it a bit strange and sad that so many girls are "attracted" to you even though they don't know you at all? Especially nowadays, anyone can be or appear to be whoever they want to be through the blinded and carefully constructed window that is social media. Its madness. I also have a theory that you are a middle aged woman. I applaud you either way.
I can assure you I’m not a middle aged woman lol I’m a 22 male who lives in Miami. But do I find it weird that people are attracted to me?.. eh not really, I mean at the end of the day aren’t you supposed to like someone for their personality not looks? I mean we hear it time to time but I feel nobody really follows that, so maybe this blog is a great thing for people