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Anonymous:
since you're pretty big on impressions and pretty much accurate about both sexes, i need guidance more than advice.. i just started dating my girlfriend. and i want to do something nice for her for valentines day, but i want to do something simple that means a lot more than doing something over the top that means so little. any ideas...?
Me:

that’s easy. if you honestly want to impress your GF then what you want to do is THINK OUTSIDE OF THE BOX, sometimes going over the top isn’t the best thing to do, remember when you & her 1st started talking and you spent hours on the phone talking about what your interest were? well that’s what you want to remember, the SMALL things that makes her who she is.. she will adore the fact that you pay attention to the minor things, it shows you listen and pay attention. from that go out of your way and plan around it. For instance, on Valentines day you may want to go out for a simple dinner but tell her you have a surprise afterwards and take her somewhere she REALLY likes.. OR buy or surprise her with something that has a lot of meaning to her, I’m not telling you to buy a Coach Purse or Michael Kors watch, it could be an inside joke that only she will understand.. the small things like this add up to so much. Just remember simplicity is the KEY. 

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